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Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Summer bucket list...

I have discovered in my "real world" experience so far that there are seasons of work and seasons of rest, and that God does not call us to work all of the time.  So for a job like a teacher, where you are totally consumed during the school year, it is important that you consider your summer a season of rest and treat it accordingly.


School teachers need a summer bucket list that consists of all the things that they would like to do during the school year, but don't have time to do.


Here is my bucket list...



Things I would like to do...

  • blog twice a week
  • deep clean house
  • learn to sew
  • take more pictures again
  • research next car purchases (we are not ready to buy, just so we are ready when my car stops working)
  • money day with Andrew (where we just talk through our finances and review our goals)
  • go to the pool often
  • go to the beach
  • see my grandparents in Annapolis
  • see my grandparents in Ohio
  • have a cookout
  • watch Downton Abbey on Netflix
Things I would like to read...

What is your summer bucket list???


Saturday, May 19, 2012

Road trip... on a budget...

We live in New Orleans, Louisiana. My family lives in Atlanta, Georgia.  Andrew's family lives a little further in Augusta, Georgia.  Needless to say, if we ever want to see our family we have a ways to travel.  Here is our route... I know many travel more than us, but this is still a daunting trip.


One of the largest concerns we have when we head out on our biyearly trip is how to do it on a budget.  Gas, food, and more... it just adds up.  So how do you make such a trip without breaking the bank?  Here are some ideas:


Are you using a lot of gas? Before you leave, tune up your car. Make sure your tires are filled, oil has been changed and the like.  When you plan your trip, plan multiple stops instead of multiple trips. For us this means we see friends in Birmingham, family in Atlanta, and family in Augusta, all in the same trip.   When you pack your car, take out any unnecessary weight.
Once on the road,  be a consistent driver.  Accelerating and braking quickly waste a lot of gas.  When on the highway, use cruise control and don't tailgate other drivers.  Here is a hard one: drive slower.  It may take you longer to get there, but you will save money. Lastly use Gas Buddy's trip calculator to find the best places to stop along the way and to budget for the gas you will use.


Do you need to eat and drink on the road? This is a place where Andrew and I really struggle, I would even say it is one of our weak spots.  It is just too easy to pick up unhealthy fast food, and drinks or candy at each gas station stop.  The first thing we have done to pack a cooler of drinks so we don't have to buy any drinks on the road, even if we stop to get food.  Then we try to pack at least one meal and snacks.  The most important thing is to have will power.  You have to decide: we will not buy food unless we have planned to do so!


Are you meeting friends?  We always seem to have a long list of friends we want to see while we are in Georgia.  What usually happens is we meet friends at coffee shops, ice cream shops, and restaurants.  Sometimes we even find ourselves eating extra meals and snacks, just to see everyone.  So why not just meet at a park instead?  Go on a walk, talk and catch up... not to mention that this is a healthier choice!  When we are meeting at meal times, choosing inexpensive restaurants, with healthy choices like Panera  or Atlanta Bread Company.  Plus there you are free to talk for as long as you want without tying up a server's table.

Writing all this out is like a commitment to a frugal trip for us, and hopefully it has some helpful information for you!

Sunday, May 13, 2012

For the valleys...


In life we have hopes and dreams...

We want to go to school, get degrees, get jobs, move places.
We want to buy washing machines,  buy cars, buy houses.
We want to get engaged, get married, have families.

I have realized that more is wrapped up in these hopes and dreams... our own plans are wrapped up in these hopes and dreams.  That may seem obvious, but I just realized the depth of this.

There have been a number of times throughout life that things have "gone to plan" and a number of things that have not.  When we grieve a personal tragedy, we are also grieving all the lost plans that are connected.

When we don't get into the dream school, we lose the dream job, the income, the self-fulfillment.
When we break up with the dream guy, we lose the fairy-tale wedding, the dream marriage, the family.
When we lose someone we are close to, we lose the future we thought we had with that person.

Our hopes and dreams are wrapped up in our plans... when our hopes and dreams should only be wrapped up in Christ.  I have to remember this when when I have my own personal tragedy, my ultimate purpose is to know Christ and make Him known.
In the midst of life's valleys, I love listening to Jars of Clay Valley Song
and my heart clings to Colossians 3:2-4-
Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.  For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.  When Christ, who is our life, is revealed, then you also will be revealed with him in glory.